The RADAR Key gives you access to disabled toilets. It’s available from public libraries  or Disability UK. You have to pay a small amount for the key but then it’s yours to keep. 

The ‘Just Can’t Wait’ toilet card is a card to use in a shop or café when you just can’t wait to use the toilet. (Find it here)

Try using a toilet that washes and dries you (though they are not perfect).  (Listen to this Dementia Diary by Shelagh Robinson).

Do not be embarrassed to wear incontinence pads / incontinence knickers.  It is more embarrassing if you wet yourself!